Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

[Melody]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

I say this again. There are people on Valefor that don't have Welfare /blisted?

Someone has to keep you up to date. Now he's making demands

Welfare: Told Jeuno to build me Amano 99 and then I'll move servers lmao.


Also I do believe I mentioned in my Return thread that I moved off of Valefor for my own reasons. Mostly not getting shit done and arguing with a drama queen and not having any real friends there that were reputable enough to be of help.

[Aksannyi]

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Just want to point out that you were all talking about a guy called Welfare on the first of the month.

Well played guys.

[Fliegar]

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Anyone know how to get a girl to stop being indecisive and give you an answer? I've already tried the direct route, and that shit isn't working. I'm at the point where most people will tell me to just find someone else, but the situation is difficult to explain. It's like she wants to be with me, or at least have the benefits associated with being close to me (Which isn't much, I might add. At least, not something I'd really expect) without actually being with me. I've asked if we were just friends, but I keep getting "I dunno" for the answer, and then the topic changes.

[Aksannyi]

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IMO: She's avoiding giving you an answer so that she doesn't have to give you an answer that you won't like. She's probably worried about causing you hurt/pain/distress/all of the above and would rather not answer than have to be the bad guy.

That's my take though, if I like someone, I'm straight with it and I don't go all wishy-washy, especially if I know there's mutual interest. I'll be more coy if I'm not sure that the guy is interested. If you're being direct with her and she's not, then I'd wager she's not interested in much. Then again, my track record isn't great. Lol.

Asking her is clearly out of the question. Ask her friends? I don't know. Lol.

[Melody]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Anyone know how to get a girl to stop being indecisive and give you an answer? I've already tried the direct route, and that shit isn't working. I'm at the point where most people will tell me to just find someone else, but the situation is difficult to explain. It's like she wants to be with me, or at least have the benefits associated with being close to me (Which isn't much, I might add. At least, not something I'd really expect) without actually being with me. I've asked if we were just friends, but I keep getting "I dunno" for the answer, and then the topic changes.

Long story short. You just made it into the "friend zone" that circle of "friends" that are close but just out of arms reach of a relationship. It honestly bothers me that that woman I see complain about being in a bad relationship. Hey honey, you know that large group called the "friend zone" pick one from there. If she's not giving you a clear answer and a direct approach isn't working, I don't want to sound rude but maybe you should "attempt" to make her jealous? That usually backfires considering the woman your in this sense "using" becomes too attached which leaves you in hot water with the woman your alternatively trying to get. Go with your instinct I say. Never second guess yourself.

[Feba]

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two options:

1- Aks is right, if she really liked you, she wouldn't be so fucking indecisive. Indecisiveness is girl-speak for no.
2- Surprise sex. It's only rape if she doesn't like you in her heart of hearts.

[cidbahamut]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

I say this again. There are people on Valefor that don't have Welfare /blisted?

It's difficult to look away from a train wreck.

[Firewind]

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But he has an Ukon and I outdamage him in melee on my White Mage...

[Romyro]

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just out of curisoty, do you have a parser or something? how do you know your out damaging him?

[Mezlo]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Anyone know how to get a girl to stop being indecisive and give you an answer? I've already tried the direct route, and that shit isn't working. I'm at the point where most people will tell me to just find someone else, but the situation is difficult to explain. It's like she wants to be with me, or at least have the benefits associated with being close to me (Which isn't much, I might add. At least, not something I'd really expect) without actually being with me. I've asked if we were just friends, but I keep getting "I dunno" for the answer, and then the topic changes.

I thought we already discussed this. You just don't want to hear the advise we have to give. MOVE ON! SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE! The sooner you realize this, the sooner you'll start feeling better. She's making you feel like shit everyday you don't come to terms with your updated status. The more you turn your head and try and rationalize her feelings as wanting to stay with you, the more you are just deceiving yourself and making your pain last longer. Again, you don't want to hear this, but you MUST move on. It will be hard at first, but will get better everyday. My mom told me something in highschool that I still hold with me to this day. If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. If she even gives you a hint that she doesn't want to be with you, it should be a sign. There's someone else out there that IS meant for you. Move on and find that person!

[Fliegar]

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Yeah, I'm really tempted to just move on. Honestly I wish she'd just be clear on everything and tell me. It's not like I'd be devastated, I just like having an answer. And as for making her jealous? Any girl that I talk to pretty much makes her jealous. It honestly doesn't take too much before she'll step in, which is one of the reasons I'm confused as hell. In all honesty I'd like to be with her, but if it isn't meant to be I'm not going to mope around, as I have better shit to do than sit around any longer and try to pry answers out of her.

[Melody]

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I thought we already discussed this. You just don't want to hear the advise we have to give. MOVE ON! SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE! The sooner you realize this, the sooner you'll start feeling better. She's making you feel like shit everyday you don't come to terms with your updated status. The more you turn your head and try and rationalize her feelings as wanting to stay with you, the more you are just deceiving yourself and making your pain last longer. Again, you don't want to hear this, but you MUST move on. It will be hard at first, but will get better everyday. My mom told me something in highschool that I still hold with me to this day. If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. If she even gives you a hint that she doesn't want to be with you, it should be a sign. There's someone else out there that IS meant for you. Move on and find that person!

Snrk...

[Mezlo]

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Honestly I wish she'd just be clear on everything and tell me. It's not like I'd be devastated, I just like having an answer.

Her not giving you "an answer" is her actually giving you an answer. It's going to be hard, and I'm speaking from experience if you can't see it dripping off me, but PLEASE, for the love of god, (or if you are aetheist for the love of Mezlo) move on!

[Melody]

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Her not giving you "an answer" is her actually giving you an answer. It's going to be hard, and I'm speaking from experience if you can't see it dripping off me, but PLEASE, for the love of god, (or if you are aetheist for the love of Mezlo) move on!

This is why we love you.

[Yygdrasil]

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This is why we love you.

And you thought she loved me all this time. Joke's on you, jackass.