Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

[DakAttack]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

He's no Terry Crews.

[Melody]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Guh...I might come back to XI today but move to another server.....bank closes soon and I have to move the funds to my other account so I can withdraw the money through the crysta system. Oh woe is me....

[Yygdrasil]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Group sex? I would like to try this, at least once. I know someone who is into swinging, and I have to admit that I'm intrigued by it. I was in an open relationship once, too, which failed due to a military deployment and not really because of the two of us sleeping with others.

I would like to point out that those 3 things are entirely different.

[Melody]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Swinging is going to parties and sleeping around with at least one person there.
Group Sex..speaks for itself.
Open Relationship - You and your partner fuck other people while still fucking one another. It usually will ruin the relationship quickly, due to interest and eventually lack of interest in each other. It also causes a lot of trust issues, so keep that in mind if you do this again.

[DakAttack]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Group sex still doesn't speak for itself; I don't understand how groups have sex with other groups. Swingers are married couples with extra-marital sexual partners.

[Melody]

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I've been with my spouse for 4 years now. Good long and running and I plan to keep it running that way.

[Etra]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Group sex still doesn't speak for itself; I don't understand how groups have sex with other groups. Swingers are married couples with extra-marital sexual partners.

You see, the long shaft that men have go into the strange mysterious hole(s) that women have (or even men.) Some women even have this weird belt that mimics the man's shaft. Groups of people get together (sometimes with other groups) and put the shafts into the holes.

[Taskmage]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Group sex still doesn't speak for itself; I don't understand how groups have sex with other groups.

Unless you're talking about disease testing again, I don't know what you could be missing that a bit of research on redtube wouldn't explain.

I had understood "swinging" to mean couples that would trade partners with other long-term couples for a night or evening or whatever. It makes sense as a way to avoid infections since theoretically otherwise faithful couples are insulated from the diseases in the pool of singles.

Open relationships work fine so long as there's trust and communication and you aren't overly possessive of your partner. I speak only from my own experience. The main problem is that in a group of three people there are three times and many relationships to maintain as in a pair; A group of four has six relationships to worry about and so on. For many people the complexity of one relationship is more than enough. Bringing in additional people throws an exponent on that.

[Yygdrasil]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Swinging is going to parties and sleeping around with at least one person there.
Group Sex..speaks for itself.
Open Relationship - You and your partner [enjoy one another's company intimately] while still [enjoying other people's company intimately on the side]. It usually will ruin the relationship quickly, due to interest and eventually lack of interest in each other. It also causes a lot of trust issues, so keep that in mind if you do this again.

Fixed... for the childrenz.

[Taskmage]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

There are parallels between trying to make this conversation PG-13 and polishing a turd.

[Etra]

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The main problem is that in a group of three people there are three times and many relationships to maintain as in a pair; A group of four has six relationships to worry about and so on. For many people the complexity of one relationship is more than enough. Bringing in additional people throws an exponent on that.

I think what you're talking about here is a polygamous relationship. Not really an open relationship.

[Taskmage]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Maybe, but I don't think an open relationship is going to work unless each person involved can at least have a friendship with each other person. If two people who hate eachother's guts are screwing the same person, that's a recipe for disaster no matter what you're calling it.

[Aksannyi]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

I would like to point out that those 3 things are entirely different.

I am aware, I just realized not long ago that there are a lot of sexual adventures I've yet to partake in.

[Melody]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

Thank you Yyg, you coming back to XI for the new expansion? What about you Akys. New account maybe? I might move servers, kinda tired of Valefor.

[Aksannyi]

Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II

I will never come back. After the retardation that was my ban, I have no desire to give SE any more of my money. I've posted extensively on it before, but basically, I switched cards a lot for a period of time due to financial struggles, and I was banned for "fraudulent credit card use." I called and pleaded my case more than once but it fell on deaf ears, so I chose to take my business elsewhere. The whole thing left a bad taste in my mouth, even after all of the fun I had in game.

It is nice to be asked though, few people ask me to play anymore.