Re: Official Bored at Work / Off-Topic Chat Thread II
I am looking at the possible purchase of a house in the next few months, as my lease is up in July and I'm sooooo over apartment living. I make enough now where I can reasonably afford a mortgage payment, and there are some actually nice places around here for which, over a 30 year loan, I'd be paying less than I am currently paying in rent. So I know I'll have to raid IKEA and probably craigslist to fill out everything except a living room and my own bedroom. I dread it.
On another note, I had been talking to this guy, nothing serious really but a lot of flirting and I got the impression from him that he was definitely interested (I teased him about something sexual, and said, "Well next time, I'll take care of that for you," and he was all like, "I'll definitely take you up on that offer.") We've been flirting like this back and forth for a few months now, but have yet to go out. I've casually asked what he's doing here and there, haven't really gotten him to take me up on going out. I asked him if he'd be interested in going out for my birthday, and he really sounded like he wanted to, but when I texted him a second time to ask if he was still interested, I didn't get a response. The past few days since, I've barely talked to him at all, and when I do, it's more like "meh."
So I guess I blew this one somehow, obviously he's not that interested in me. Not like I was going out looking for the next Mr. Aksannyi or anything, but damn, I really liked this guy and I thought he liked me. Just kinda has me bummed out this week and stresses me out at work. He's probably not worth it in the long run, but damn. Just ... damn.
And on a third and final note, I've finally come to the terms that I have to contact the guy that really fucked me up last year and get the stuff of mine that's (hopefully) still sitting in his attic. Then I have absolutely zero connection to him and I can completely move on from ever thinking about him or caring that he exists. Honestly, I really just don't wanna see him.
Bleh this week.
I am looking at the possible purchase of a house in the next few months, as my lease is up in July and I'm sooooo over apartment living. I make enough now where I can reasonably afford a mortgage payment, and there are some actually nice places around here for which, over a 30 year loan, I'd be paying less than I am currently paying in rent. So I know I'll have to raid IKEA and probably craigslist to fill out everything except a living room and my own bedroom. I dread it.
On another note, I had been talking to this guy, nothing serious really but a lot of flirting and I got the impression from him that he was definitely interested (I teased him about something sexual, and said, "Well next time, I'll take care of that for you," and he was all like, "I'll definitely take you up on that offer.") We've been flirting like this back and forth for a few months now, but have yet to go out. I've casually asked what he's doing here and there, haven't really gotten him to take me up on going out. I asked him if he'd be interested in going out for my birthday, and he really sounded like he wanted to, but when I texted him a second time to ask if he was still interested, I didn't get a response. The past few days since, I've barely talked to him at all, and when I do, it's more like "meh."
So I guess I blew this one somehow, obviously he's not that interested in me. Not like I was going out looking for the next Mr. Aksannyi or anything, but damn, I really liked this guy and I thought he liked me. Just kinda has me bummed out this week and stresses me out at work. He's probably not worth it in the long run, but damn. Just ... damn.
And on a third and final note, I've finally come to the terms that I have to contact the guy that really fucked me up last year and get the stuff of mine that's (hopefully) still sitting in his attic. Then I have absolutely zero connection to him and I can completely move on from ever thinking about him or caring that he exists. Honestly, I really just don't wanna see him.
Bleh this week.
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