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neighbor has a bad husband that attacks emotionally!
is Divorce unnecessary and just money making for lawyers?
Ya I know some neighbors that always fight and one paying the rent wants to get rid of the other so they don't live there anymore.
I was thinking of helping them, but I don't think they have to go through a divorce in order to be legally separated.
Their husband hasn't committed any physical crimes (mostly arguing and giving them a bad day to day lifestyle.)
But would be it be a good idea to get the police involved? because they are the kind of person who just keeps talking and acting like they are smarter than everyone else, and no one else knows anything, but I know their wife is suffering inside, and this has been going on for years.
She's too nice to keep that bad guy around, and he takes advantage of that kindness to stick around, with just excuses of "helping his kids", but he doesn't pay the rent or the bills. And he blames the wife and the oldest daughter for trying to get him into a crazy institution (which isn't true. He collects a lot of junk and fills the house with too much stuff, so they brought him to see some doctors, but they really weren't trying to ruin him, just help him, but now he thinks they are his worst enemies.
So ya with so much lack of respect and refusal to budge. I'm not sure if I should tell the neighbor to get the landlord and police involved.
But that might be risky, what if he is crazy enough to commit arson or murder or kidnappings?
What if he doesn't return the copy of the keys or make a secret copy and give it to burglars? What if he stalks her and bothers her kids? As of right now, he has done nothing that is enough reason to arrest him or place charges on him.
But I dunno what to tell them what to do so that they can get rid of him for good and not have anything bad happen.
Her kids are old enough but its terrible allowing a situation like that continues.
If she ends up getting health problems, her family would suffer, and that bad guy is causing emotional harm.
He does have family in another country and state. But I don't know if the family getting rid of him would mean that would be the last they see of him.
But ya there must be something legally that can be done to ensure he moves out this month or next month, well as soon as possible, because if they don't give him a date and ultimatum, and support to get rid of him, he's probably going to still live there until one of them kicks the bucket.
It really is a terrible situation. Even the little things can slowly kill someone emotionally (like they take things or pours tea in the lady's plants, even after countless times of telling them not to. And the evil guy acts like they didn't do that.)
I know the neighbor is feeling emotional pain inside and nervousness and stuff, but what's the best ways for her to free herself of that demon in the apartment?
Ya I know some neighbors that always fight and one paying the rent wants to get rid of the other so they don't live there anymore.
I was thinking of helping them, but I don't think they have to go through a divorce in order to be legally separated.
Their husband hasn't committed any physical crimes (mostly arguing and giving them a bad day to day lifestyle.)
But would be it be a good idea to get the police involved? because they are the kind of person who just keeps talking and acting like they are smarter than everyone else, and no one else knows anything, but I know their wife is suffering inside, and this has been going on for years.
She's too nice to keep that bad guy around, and he takes advantage of that kindness to stick around, with just excuses of "helping his kids", but he doesn't pay the rent or the bills. And he blames the wife and the oldest daughter for trying to get him into a crazy institution (which isn't true. He collects a lot of junk and fills the house with too much stuff, so they brought him to see some doctors, but they really weren't trying to ruin him, just help him, but now he thinks they are his worst enemies.
So ya with so much lack of respect and refusal to budge. I'm not sure if I should tell the neighbor to get the landlord and police involved.
But that might be risky, what if he is crazy enough to commit arson or murder or kidnappings?
What if he doesn't return the copy of the keys or make a secret copy and give it to burglars? What if he stalks her and bothers her kids? As of right now, he has done nothing that is enough reason to arrest him or place charges on him.
But I dunno what to tell them what to do so that they can get rid of him for good and not have anything bad happen.
Her kids are old enough but its terrible allowing a situation like that continues.
If she ends up getting health problems, her family would suffer, and that bad guy is causing emotional harm.
He does have family in another country and state. But I don't know if the family getting rid of him would mean that would be the last they see of him.
But ya there must be something legally that can be done to ensure he moves out this month or next month, well as soon as possible, because if they don't give him a date and ultimatum, and support to get rid of him, he's probably going to still live there until one of them kicks the bucket.
It really is a terrible situation. Even the little things can slowly kill someone emotionally (like they take things or pours tea in the lady's plants, even after countless times of telling them not to. And the evil guy acts like they didn't do that.)
I know the neighbor is feeling emotional pain inside and nervousness and stuff, but what's the best ways for her to free herself of that demon in the apartment?
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