Re: What do you want to ask?
My favorite date is when someone takes the time do actually do something different. Bring a bottle of something to drink (doesn't have to be alcohol) down to the lake with 2 glasses and a blanket. Sit, talk, drink, and take a walk. Cheap, simple, and immpressive.
For Tek - how I met my husband:
I was 19 and he was 25. We worked at a factory. I worked in the cafeteria and he worked in the plant. His buddy, Larry, was getting a divorce and he was living with my soon to be husband, Steve. His buddy wanted to get in my pants but I didn't like him in that way. I told him we could hang out as friends but thats it. So his buddy didn't have a car and my soon to be hubby would drive him everywhere. I was too poor to afford gas for anything but back and forth to work so Steve would drive Larry to pick me up and we'd go back to Steve's apartment to watch basketball. We went bowling once and watched a game at Steve's apartment once, that was it. Larry was too clingy and I said no after that. Steve never talked....ever....he never said a word to me. It was like exact opposites. LOL
Then the company Christmas party was in December. The cafeteria is not allowed to go but many of the guys in the plant invited me so I went anyways. When I got there Larry latched onto me like I was his date. I was young, naive, and had a hard time telling guys to f**k off so I was very uncomfortable and going to leave. Then out of the blue Steve comes up and says "Want to get rid of Larry?" to which I heartilly said YES. He said "Ok then would you be my date this evening?" and I laughed and said Ok. I sat down next to Steve and Larry came up and put his arm around me and Steve said "Larry, get your arm off my date." WHEEEEEE! Larry had one huge emo hissy fit, I thought it was going to come to blows but it didn't.
So I finally got to talk to Steve and we clicked. About an hour and a half into the date he asked me what I wanted in life. I said "To get married, have another baby, and just be happy." He said "Ya thats what I want too....something simple." and then he looked at me and said "Would you marry me?" My eyes got big because I didn't think that was something you should joke about when having that type of conversation and then I busted out laughing. He sat there totally serious staring at me so I stopped. Then he said "I'm serious." so I jokingly said "Well thats not how most men propose." So a guy he knew just came out of the bathroom that we were sitting by and he grabbed him by the arm. "Come here and witness this." he said. Then he got down on bended knee, took my hand, looked into my eyes and said "From the first day I saw you, I knew. Would you marry me?" I sat there stunned. His buddy said "Well? You have to answer you know." And I said Yes...of course. His buddy immediatly shouted "OK ANOTHER IDIOT BITES THE DUST....again....Shit Steve when are you going to learn!" and patted him on the back. (Steve had just gotten a divorce from a very overbearing woman.) LOL A month and a half later on Valentine's Day we were married. So I dated my husband for an hour and half and he asked me to marry him and knew him for 2 months before we were married and now we've been together for 27 years. The End
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If you had to break up with someone, how would you do it?
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For Tek - how I met my husband:
I was 19 and he was 25. We worked at a factory. I worked in the cafeteria and he worked in the plant. His buddy, Larry, was getting a divorce and he was living with my soon to be husband, Steve. His buddy wanted to get in my pants but I didn't like him in that way. I told him we could hang out as friends but thats it. So his buddy didn't have a car and my soon to be hubby would drive him everywhere. I was too poor to afford gas for anything but back and forth to work so Steve would drive Larry to pick me up and we'd go back to Steve's apartment to watch basketball. We went bowling once and watched a game at Steve's apartment once, that was it. Larry was too clingy and I said no after that. Steve never talked....ever....he never said a word to me. It was like exact opposites. LOL
Then the company Christmas party was in December. The cafeteria is not allowed to go but many of the guys in the plant invited me so I went anyways. When I got there Larry latched onto me like I was his date. I was young, naive, and had a hard time telling guys to f**k off so I was very uncomfortable and going to leave. Then out of the blue Steve comes up and says "Want to get rid of Larry?" to which I heartilly said YES. He said "Ok then would you be my date this evening?" and I laughed and said Ok. I sat down next to Steve and Larry came up and put his arm around me and Steve said "Larry, get your arm off my date." WHEEEEEE! Larry had one huge emo hissy fit, I thought it was going to come to blows but it didn't.
So I finally got to talk to Steve and we clicked. About an hour and a half into the date he asked me what I wanted in life. I said "To get married, have another baby, and just be happy." He said "Ya thats what I want too....something simple." and then he looked at me and said "Would you marry me?" My eyes got big because I didn't think that was something you should joke about when having that type of conversation and then I busted out laughing. He sat there totally serious staring at me so I stopped. Then he said "I'm serious." so I jokingly said "Well thats not how most men propose." So a guy he knew just came out of the bathroom that we were sitting by and he grabbed him by the arm. "Come here and witness this." he said. Then he got down on bended knee, took my hand, looked into my eyes and said "From the first day I saw you, I knew. Would you marry me?" I sat there stunned. His buddy said "Well? You have to answer you know." And I said Yes...of course. His buddy immediatly shouted "OK ANOTHER IDIOT BITES THE DUST....again....Shit Steve when are you going to learn!" and patted him on the back. (Steve had just gotten a divorce from a very overbearing woman.) LOL A month and a half later on Valentine's Day we were married. So I dated my husband for an hour and half and he asked me to marry him and knew him for 2 months before we were married and now we've been together for 27 years. The End
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If you had to break up with someone, how would you do it?
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