What's your pet peeve in RL?

[Takelli]

Re: What's your pet peeve in RL?

Your dentist cancels appointments? WTF kind of doctor is that?

You see, you're good at taking appointments... Anyone can take appointments! The key to an appointment is KEEPING the appointment. That's the reason appointments are made in the first place!

I've had it done. If its not an emergency, they can cancel it if something comes up.

[DakAttack]

Re: What's your pet peeve in RL?

From what I understand, underhanded dentists will book all their HMO patients on the same day, since they're paid regardless of if the patient was even seen, then call in sick. This requires the patients to make a second appointment, and the dentist gets paid twice for each HMO patient.

[djose]

Re: What's your pet peeve in RL?

They cancelled cause The Dentist had a "sore throat". Pretty lame excuse imo.

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3 years ago I moved into a house with a best mate of 25 years. was fine for the first 6 months, he kept himself to himself, we got on ok, chores were shared and there was no obligation to have to be social all teh time if each of us wanted some space. Que after 6 months his bitch ahem sorry gf forced her way into the house, after 6 months it was getting very hellish after a year of hell I moved out and because she didn;t work, he had to get a loan out to pay for the rent. He could never say no to her and is now married to her, I wasn;t invited to the wedding of course, incase I managed to pursade him out of it. and now I've been cut off for the last 6 months I have found emails read (read reciepts) when i know he is on shift and he has no access to computers at his job (waitrose night staff) and I don't get a reply because his bitch of a wife deletes them. So I just ended up saying fuckit as hes letter her walk over him and I don't need the shit so a 25 year long friendship has been ended.[COLOR="Silver"]

Awww Jarre, I'm sorry to hear about that

*biggg huggggesssss for one Mr. Jarre*

[Jarre]

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thanks hun, got my xrays and checkup to find out what they plan to do with my tooth, whether remove or put a crown in on wednesday next week. Bloody busy week next week, got pdoc tomorrow then tuesday its physio, wednesday dentist and job centre, then thursday pdoc.

The fact is my mate isn't very tech savy and his mobile phone he never uses and they moved 6 months after I did and I don't know the new address and his parents wont talk to me because of what his bitch accused me of doing when I was 100 miles away with my then gf (and has subsequently led to having an harrasment charge put against his bitch to prevent her from contact or soiling my name) which has ld her to preventing my mate from contacting me as she has to be with him everywhere she goes. His loss in my eyes, I am just tired of people who just rather agree with something just to avoid any arguments etc. to what he doesn't realise she uses against him to get what she wants. As I said, water under the bridge, but not nice to go through, and I move on. Still have some good friends that keep in contact with me and visit me etc.

*hugs* to all that need them

[djose]

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Ooh you do have a busy week don't you haha xD

Well being honest, if he listens and chooses some female over his long time friend, I don't think he's worth your kindness and friendship

Yay for hugs. *puts up hand in air, and nabs first hug*

[Satori]

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I can sort of relate to that,

I dont see much of my friends anymore they are all getting married and having children and the more that goes on the less I hear from them and the less I see them. At first I seemed invaluable to them my nursing experience came in handy for every cough, sneeze and rash their kids had I even used to pull strings to rush them through the emergency departments. I even gave my id badge to swipe through the barrier gates for free parking, I taught their girlfriends/wives how to cook simple things when they couldnt even boil an egg before. I lost count how much I babysat so they could go out, Thing is all being friends they were going on nights out that I would have if I hadnt been babysitting.

I bump into them and the "we should meet up, you should come over" is said but it never happens even when I try to make contact.
Thing is before I was the gay friend who they couldnt live without when it seemed the gay tag was fashionable. Now it seems my lifestyle is unnacceptable, When if I was the kind of gay that was self absorbed, partying and drug taking I'd understand but I'm not.

I have 300ish friends on facebook and aside from immediate family, colleagues and Ls members I dont have much contact with people I consider friends/close to.
If I'm honest I am lonely, I wish I knew if I'd done something too them to understand why I'm in this position but all I've done is helped and gone out of my way to make life easier for them when at times it's made things more difficult for myself.

I live in a tower block on the 11th floor, I only moved here because my old building was being knocked down. My friends moved to the 11th floor and said there was still one available so I moved here after we all spoke about being neighbours. I cooked for them, cleaned for them, I went through a whole pregnancy with them and helped them plan their wedding. I never interfered I just ran errands when Claire was going to be on her own and they always asked me. They got married and moved into a house they couldnt afford.
I ended up taking an extended unpaid break from work to be their full time child-minder so they could go to work. 7am-7pm.
I never asked for a penny from them,
Wedding came I got an invite, I ended up looking after their boy all day and overnight because tehy were drunk, can't blame them it was a good wedding and they should enjoy it.
I took care of their boy 5 days a week from 6 months of age until he was 2 and a half plus random nights out that I should of attended also, They christened him I wasnt even invited to that which really upset me. His god-parents are two people they always said they couldnt stand.
Now I see them on fb saying their expecting another and how they're struggling.

Relationships change people, Changes in relationships change people.
You can only truly rely on yourself in this life,
Even just being there and being a good friend isnt enough for some people.

[djose]

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What does it mean when a Bloke wants a break?
Right now, I'm assuming the worst and crying like a new born.

[Squiggs]

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Sorry Lea, it's not good news usually.

[djose]

Re: What's your pet peeve in RL?

Thought so...
Thanks

[Jarre]

Re: What's your pet peeve in RL?

*huggggs* To be honest I don't know as its usually the women who finishes or decided the status for me.

[djose]

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me: I need to know what's going on, im going crazy
Him: I don't know. We need some time to think about us. I also think time apart will do us good no matter what.

Now that I look at it, it doesn't look very promising :/

[Murphie]

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Leasious. He's just not that into you. He's just being a coward about saying it. He wants out, but doesn't want to be the bad guy. Cut ties, move on. Life will suck at first, but then it will get better.

[Taskmage]

Re: What's your pet peeve in RL?

I don't know. We need some time to think about us. I also think time apart will do us good no matter what.

I don't want to unfairly characterize this person you clearly have a lot of affection for, but these are weasel words plain and simple.

[Satori]

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The whole having a break is bullshit,
All it ever did was provide a few good episodes as friends.
Basically it means they want something else.
Relationships aren't like ffxi you can't log out/in subscribe and cancel as you see fit.
He's just trying to break up with you whilst doing some damage limitation so he doesnt come off as the bad guy.

I'm sorry if I come across bitter it's not my intent but at 28 I've said it and had it said to me many times and it always is just a bs suggestion. If he does plan to get back with you then it's so he can get something elsewhere and come back to you with less guilt as he's not "technically" cheating.

You always seem like a nice girl. You deserve better, grab the ice-ream cookies some chick flicks and take the time to get over it and move on. Life is too short to be messed around with idiots that don't know what they want or don't want.
Find what you want and go get it.

You will get the generic friend responses "plenty more fish in the sea" "you can do better"
The reason they are said is because it's true

I hope you feel better soon, break ups are never fun.
At least we al have experience to draw upon in this situation.

/huggles. xxx

[djose]

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Righteo 3 years going down the drain then.

Time to /hibernate

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I've just text him saying
"if you dont want to stay with me, tell me now rather then having your cake and eating it too"