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So as much as we all like to say, despite being Final Fantasy XI players, we do have lives outside the game, I think I do steer dangerously close to being one of those socially inept losers who couldn't have a life outside the house if their life depended on it...which is literally does...sort of.
In an effort to turn this around, I joined a group called the New Jersey Young Professionals that likes to do cool shit like laser tag, networking, speed dating, and drinking a lot. So far, I've been to one of their events, the St Patricks Day party. And I'll probably be meeting some of them for Happy Hour or Singles Mingling. My alcohol consumption is probably going to increase exponentially since, prior to St Patricks Day 2011, I was effectively a non-drinker.
Anyway, how is this for socially inept? My introduction to everybody I met at the party was, more or less, "Hi, I'm Kevin and I suck at meeting people so don't mind me if I say something strange. What's your name?"
Why can't I just walk around with a green exclamation mark over my head and I show up on peoples' iPhones as somebody "looking for group"?
Perhaps a pink question mark would be more appropriate. :3
I have the same problem, though. All my socializing is done through a browser or an IM pane since I quit FFXI. You don't meet very many people that way. And of course, since the internet is so delightfully non-local, most of the people I consider to be my closest friends are people I've never seen face-to-face, and can't share a hug or even a smile with when we desperately need to. It's a good thing in a way I guess in that it keeps me from slutting it up with Aks and Murphie and a couple of others not present, getting into social situations far too complex for my borderline autistic mind to handle, but this feeling of being alone in an imaginary crowd gets old, neh?
I have no serious response. I just wanted to make that joke. :/ Also, I am fairly socially inept. I did have to ask a friend for a favor today, though, and boy did it feel good to have a hug. You know what I miss most about my kids? Daily hugs.
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