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Re: Birth control pills...for men?
I know where you coming from saren, our country is full of them..
My mate went through it real bad..
He met this girl who after a year going steady moved into the hosue he morgaged. about 3 months down the line she stopped taking the pill, she'd take it in front of him, and just keep it in her mouth then spit it out when he wasn't looking. it wasn't until 4 months down the line when she started to get a noticable bump that he got her to go to the docs. She knew she was pregnant, it was part of the plan. He accepted this thinking something must have happened as the pill is not 100% guarenteed. A month later she became very eratic, mood swings etc. and my mate was now thinking should he be in this relationship. He decided not as she became very violent towards him. He ended it and she went home. 3 weeks past , then he received a letter from her solicitor filing for half of his house. In the Uk if a partner (doesn't have to be married) lives in teh same hosue and contributes money to bills, food or the mortgage then if they have lived there doing this for over 6 months they are entitled to half the house.
As she was pregnant and put on a sob story in court my mate lost the case, and had to sell the house and give her half the money. He i also not alowed to see the kid (now 2) as she said he wouldn't be a suitable father and social services agreed (due to teh tension between them now) He still has to pay £200 a month maintenance to her for the kid as well as he lost £46k ($89k) on the house, he hs already made 1 attempt at suicide and until he got his own place crashed at my pad for 2 months.
all this because he didn't like wearing a condom and trusted she'd take the pill. so a male pill to me is an excellent idea and one I would take up on. The reality is from teh true story is you can never trust anyone, so if there is an option to to be extra safe i.e. with a male pill and/or a condom then take it.
My friend is in court again trying to turnover the maintenance issue as he has not ever seen his son and is not given access so hes arguing when she did this purposley why he should have to pay for her trick. I am a character witness for him next week for the first day of the hearing.
As saren said there are a lot of pretty F'd up women here in this country, us blokes have to be weary of and take precautions.
Here endeth the lesson.
I know where you coming from saren, our country is full of them..
My mate went through it real bad..
He met this girl who after a year going steady moved into the hosue he morgaged. about 3 months down the line she stopped taking the pill, she'd take it in front of him, and just keep it in her mouth then spit it out when he wasn't looking. it wasn't until 4 months down the line when she started to get a noticable bump that he got her to go to the docs. She knew she was pregnant, it was part of the plan. He accepted this thinking something must have happened as the pill is not 100% guarenteed. A month later she became very eratic, mood swings etc. and my mate was now thinking should he be in this relationship. He decided not as she became very violent towards him. He ended it and she went home. 3 weeks past , then he received a letter from her solicitor filing for half of his house. In the Uk if a partner (doesn't have to be married) lives in teh same hosue and contributes money to bills, food or the mortgage then if they have lived there doing this for over 6 months they are entitled to half the house.
As she was pregnant and put on a sob story in court my mate lost the case, and had to sell the house and give her half the money. He i also not alowed to see the kid (now 2) as she said he wouldn't be a suitable father and social services agreed (due to teh tension between them now) He still has to pay £200 a month maintenance to her for the kid as well as he lost £46k ($89k) on the house, he hs already made 1 attempt at suicide and until he got his own place crashed at my pad for 2 months.
all this because he didn't like wearing a condom and trusted she'd take the pill. so a male pill to me is an excellent idea and one I would take up on. The reality is from teh true story is you can never trust anyone, so if there is an option to to be extra safe i.e. with a male pill and/or a condom then take it.
My friend is in court again trying to turnover the maintenance issue as he has not ever seen his son and is not given access so hes arguing when she did this purposley why he should have to pay for her trick. I am a character witness for him next week for the first day of the hearing.
As saren said there are a lot of pretty F'd up women here in this country, us blokes have to be weary of and take precautions.
Here endeth the lesson.
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