I'm a monster.

[Clever Ninja]

Re: I'm a monster.

Posting a PM displays a lack of tact and cowardly behavior.

And going behind his back and getting him banned from some other forums and tarnishing his name there isn't?

[Kaickul]

Re: I'm a monster.

I'm really sorry, BBQ. I didn't mean anything unpleasant in your hospital thread.

Thank you for being first at being the bigger man Murphie.

I didn't even reply to the comment made in said thread, I have no clue what you're talking about in that regard. I just rolled my eyes and replied to who was being relevent.

But you did report it, which brings me into the scene. So you were offended enough that you wanted the mods to do something about it.


Now work it out or drop it.

[Omgwtfbbqkitten]

Re: I'm a monster.

I think I made it clear in the posted PM, I intend to drop it.

[Murphie]

Re: I'm a monster.

I wouldn't have posted the PM (that's not really my style) but it was made clear that any attempt to respond to it would be ignored or deleted (or even reported), so I did the only thing I could do.

Some of the accusations in the PM really needed to be addressed. I still don't know who these people are that I'm targeting, or what I did at LBR that was so wrong, or anything else I've been accused of. Heck, I may never know, I guess.

[Vyuru]

Re: I'm a monster.

Erm, CleverNinja, I'd have to say that was NOT needed. Not everyone is the same and it can take some people a long time to realise that they have a problem, and when they do I honestly don't think they should be lashed at once they do realise it.

Fine, Omgwtfbbqkitten learned something about himself, good for him, so long as he tries to do better after a lifetime of living a certain way that is all I can ask of him, whether he succeeds or fails is another matter.

Case in point, my grandmother, quite frankly, can be a bitch, the phrase "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" doesn't even BEGIN to describe her. My mother has a ton of my grandmother's traits. She has only recently realised this, and is rather horrified to realise this to be honest.

She tries to be better, but more often than not isn't. Am I going to beat her over the head with the fact that she is like her mother? No, I know she is trying her best to change a lifetime habit, her entire way of living.

It is not easy to do, now maybe you have experiance with that and maybe you don't, but I don't think you should be making quite that strong of a statement against Omgwtfbbqkitten.

I would really recommend that you both start over on a fresh slate, if you can't get along after that fine, but I think if you both take a step back and think about this you could both get along just fine.

[Murphie]

Re: I'm a monster.

Will I be unbanned at LBR, and an apology/explanation made?

[eticket109]

Re: I'm a monster.

I completely understood the intended tone of the post in question. I guess I could understand why others didn't though.

I just find it funny that a thread that was positive got locked while all the bitching and whining ones end up chugging along.

[Eohmer]

Re: I'm a monster.

E, I'm wondering the same.

About the said post... true, sarcasm is hard to understand sometimes online.
But I understood what he meant.

Murph, I think what BBQ means about you "picking on people" is how you respond to them in some threads.
I don't think you have any "targets" by how you respond. That's just how it comes out, I guess.

Of course, I could be wrong about what BBQ really means by that.

/shrugs

[Clever Ninja]

Re: I'm a monster.

I'm sorry Vyuru, but this bs is just too much. Despite omg's stupid wild allegations about Murphy, I've seen him post since I FIRST REGISTERED AT THESE FORUMS and he's always been helpful and kind person. For someone like him to feel uncomfortable on forums he's been home too for almost 2 years cause omg can't be responsible enough to deal with her own problems is just wrong. While he has some fault for baiting her, as trolls like her only keep going when they get baited, it's not fair for him to even have the desire to leave over something that's not his fault.

If omg has mood swings, fine, but she shouldn't be allowed to tarnish the good name of these forums with all this drama because of it. Either she becomes responsible and doesn't venture here during these mood swings or the mods are going to have to do something about it, this has gone far beyond the point of "take it to the PM's" line, as they both have made clear.

[Murphie]

Re: I'm a monster.

I completely understood the intended tone of the post in question. I guess I could understand why others didn't though.

I just find it funny that a thread that was positive got locked while all the bitching and whining ones end up chugging along.

One man's bitching and whining is another's attempt to figure out what the heck is going on.

That said, I do think it's too bad the thread was closed. I'd be happy to have my post deleted and the thread reopened if that's possible. It wasn't my intention to get it closed.

[Aksannyi]

Re: I'm a monster.

Wait, BBQ is a girl? I always thought BBQ was a dude. -.-

If so, well then it's nice to know of another regular female poster around here.

[Eohmer]

Re: I'm a monster.

Wait, BBQ is a girl? I always thought BBQ was a dude. -.-

I was wondering the same thing. I just didn't want to be the one to bring it up. lol

[Clever Ninja]

Re: I'm a monster.

According to vyuru's grammar bbq is a she <_<. I always default someones gender to Male until proved otherwise on the internet. Never steered me wrong.

[Eohmer]

Re: I'm a monster.

According to vyuru's grammar bbq is a she <_<. I always default someones gender to Male until proved otherwise on the internet. Never steered me wrong.

Actually, I thought BBQ was a she because of someone else. Not Vyuru.

[Kaickul]

Re: I'm a monster.

Ill reopen the thread provided the conversation is kept civil, as it has been here... somewhat.