Darkages bashing

[aegina]

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i'm agreeing too. sorry, i guess i misunderstood what add was when i started the thread.

[Blood Red Poet]

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Hey, whats the opposite of an orgasmn? Well thats how I feel everytime I read his posts.

[aegina]

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LOL! hi brp^^ we've been talking about you

[Brayden]

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Hey, whats the opposite of an orgasmn? Well thats how I feel everytime I read his posts.

Convulsions?

[Macht]

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I'm trying to figure out why you're still arguing too. x_x didn;t macht just basically agree with you just now?

Yeah, it was a partial agreement though. He want to rebuttle my dispute on the fact of the existance of ADD or ADHD all together. My stand on it is that ADD and ADHD is not something requiring medication period. That the issue in my mind and my families is that this as well as many other psychological stated reasons are just bull. Parent states that their kid won't sit still for 5 min. immediatly labeled ADHD, even though the kid is being given sweets or caffine in a regular basis so of course they'd be hyper like that.

Thing that leads me and my family to find it to just be an excuse period is that all three my brother, sister, and myself were diagnosed ADHD and all three of us have completly different behaviors. Ridalin basically will make a hyper kid calm even if he doesn't have ADHD, but comeon drugging up a kid to calm him down is just nuts. My problem of my mind wandering or focus issues I've discovered for myself to be a lack of sleep along with bad nutrition.

Once I adjusted those two (No Sodas, nearly eliminated High Fructose, and moderate consumption of caffine for nutrition and getting 8hrs sleep along with 15-30min. nap around lunch) my focus improved greatly. Ironically these changes are suggested standards for healthy living in general.

Basically he is defending Ridalin's use while I'm disputing it. In both cases however there is just one fundamental thing that we both stated. That is regardless of hyperactivity or attention issues we both are still cappable and have excellent, good, or decent gammar use. So even if Darkages had this problem there's just no way someone should even try to defend to that, because they are just confirming my statement of it being an excuse.

[Blood Red Poet]

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You don't talk about BRP, you talk BRP.

[Omni]

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you know... in other countries, there isnt such thing as ADD or ADHD, its just called being undesciplined. which is curable by a good ass whooping by his/her parents. kids here have it too easy. way too much freedom and way too much choice.

[Yossar]

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Yeah, it was a partial agreement though. He want to rebuttle my dispute on the fact of the existance of ADD or ADHD all together. My stand on it is that ADD and ADHD is not something requiring medication period. That the issue in my mind and my families is that this as well as many other psychological stated reasons are just bull. Parent states that their kid won't sit still for 5 min. immediatly labeled ADHD, even though the kid is being given sweets or caffine in a regular basis so of course they'd be hyper like that.

Thing that leads me and my family to find it to just be an excuse period is that all three my brother, sister, and myself were diagnosed ADHD and all three of us have completly different behaviors. Ridalin basically will make a hyper kid calm even if he doesn't have ADHD, but comeon drugging up a kid to calm him down is just nuts. My problem of my mind wandering or focus issues I've discovered for myself to be a lack of sleep along with bad nutrition.

Once I adjusted those two (No Sodas, nearly eliminated High Fructose, and moderate consumption of caffine for nutrition and getting 8hrs sleep along with 15-30min. nap around lunch) my focus improved greatly. Ironically these changes are suggested standards for healthy living in general.

Basically he is defending Ridalin's use while I'm disputing it. In both cases however there is just one fundamental thing that we both stated. That is regardless of hyperactivity or attention issues we both are still cappable and have excellent, good, or decent gammar use. So even if Darkages had this problem there's just no way someone should even try to defend to that, because they are just confirming my statement of it being an excuse.

We'll probably just have to agree to disagree on this one. Ritalin is given to people that do not need it, however there are individuals that benefit from it. You can't just use yourself as an example. If your problems were solved with just a healthy diet, then you probably were one of the many people that were misdiagnosed with ADD. The disorder does exist, though, and no amount of personal experience is going to change that. Psychologists don't just pull this stuff from their ass. They do lots and lots of case studies. Wikipedia has a great article about ADHD/ADD at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attenti...ivity_Disorder
It contains all this information about it, including the debate on whether it actually exists or not. Truth be told, we still don't know enough about the brain to fully understand disorders such as these.

[Caspian]

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My problem with it is the rampant overmedication for it and several other "personality disorders". Now we have a drug to "cure" shyness? Wtf is that? Are we headed for a society where we've decided what traits make the perfect character and not rest until everyone is exactly alike? What I see a lot is: "I don't have time to take care of my kid like a should and teach them self-control and discipline. So I'll just give them some drugs that basically turn them into a walking, controllable, zombie." You teach your kids that there are actions that are inappropriate at certain times and that there are punishments worse than sitting in the corner for 5 minutes. Where the hell was time-out when I was a kid?

[TheGrandMom]

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As a parent I ran into this ADD/ADHD issue. My son was in elementary school when I was slapped in the face with this. I received a phone call to set up a meeting at the school with the counselor and teacher. The teacher told me it was to discuss my son's ADHD. I was floored. I had the same reaction that all parents do...."My son? ADHD? Omg what am I going to do!?" I questioned my parenting, I questioned my professional ability, and I questioned my husband's dedication to his family. But the next day when I was calm, I realized that I just had a teacher diagnose my son with a condition that they require him to take medication. And then I was angry.

I live with my son. I put up with my son's antics the other 16 hours of the day. And I don't see any reason to medicate him for being a energetic young man. His grades were good, so what was the issue? At the meeting I was told that if I didn't put my son on medication that he would not be able to come to school. Can you believe that royal BS!? Now I as BEYOND angry and boy I let them know. The teacher was in tears by the time I left, the principal was there with his jaw hanging to the ground, and the counselor just sat there with a grin because she had dealt with me before.

I took my son to the doctor and then eventually a colleague of mine in the psychiatric field saw him. He was diagnosed with ADHD. After some legal wrangling, my son went back to school drug free. We adjusted his diet, his lifestyle was already structured, and we worked with him in sessions. A pill never passed his lips and all it took was some dedication from the teacher, psychiatrist, therapist, and his parents. A lot of damn hard work, let me tell you! but it was worth it in the end.

Out of all the children put on medication for ADD/ADHD, at least 50% are misdiagnosed. Of the other 50%, 25% could go without the medication as long as certain steps were taken. The people in our society are so entranced with the "quick fix" that we don't even think twice before popping a pill in our mouth or the mouths of our loved ones. There are not enough studies done with children and their medical issues much less medications for children. In my opinion, medications should be a last ditch effort.

[Blood Red Poet]

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I have a Banana-Eating disorder, but now I take several pills a day to solve it.

[faith]

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This is geting kinda ridiculous,all of this only cuz of some 1 dont type very well and every 1 or most are bashing on him cuz of that,whats the point he made u pass a bad day cuz u had hard time to read hes post?if thats it just dont jump on him and leave it as it is,i dont think he need some1 to tell him same bullshit over and over,this wont get anywhere just leave him do what he want,the way he type is maybe hard to understand sometimes but we can still read it when we pay attention seriously i dont care how i type bad or well even if i still look what ive wrote to be sure im not goign to be misunderstood cuz of it,some ppls dont mind that and its totaly normal seriously if u think ur better than any1 u dont need to show it to others.

Hey, whats the opposite of an orgasmn? Well thats how I feel everytime I read his posts.

Total bullshit if that is true what are u waiting to just go **** yourself ?Oh wait i must be wrong,u must already have done that huh? And how can u kno wwhat is the opposite of an orgasm when u definitly never had 1 or mostly never made ur gf/bf have 1 Sry if im using some rude way to tell it but this start to really get me insane even when im new to this forum,and btw no im not saying sry to Blood Red Poet but to evry 1 else that will ready this.

[aegina]

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i didn't open this thread to jump on anybody. but what's the point in typing if no one can read what you type?

This is geting kinda ridiculous,all of this only cuz of some 1 dont type very well and every 1 or most are bashing on him cuz of that,whats the point he made u pass a bad day cuz u had hard time to read hes post?if thats it just dont jump on him and leave it as it is,i dont think he need some1 to tell him same bullshit over and over,this wont get anywhere just leave him do what he want,the way he type is maybe hard to understand sometimes but we can still read it when we pay attention seriously i dont care how i type bad or well even if i still look what ive wrote to be sure im not goign to be misunderstood cuz of it,some ppls dont mind that and its totaly normal seriously if u think ur better than any1 u dont need to show it to others.

for example, you coulda said all that like this:

this is getting rediculous. let him type how he wants.

and not only would it have been easier to read, but easier to type too

[Blood Red Poet]

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Is this some kind of dialect of the retards?

[nanatsu]

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>_>