I just got level 75 a week or so ago and whm is my first job to get there so I have no idea what to expect from people or parties at end-game time. I took part in my first merit party the other night and it left me with a bad taste. It started off really well, we had a brd / whm, nin /war, 3 war / nin and me. We flew through the mobs in the thickets, the getting up to chain #66. Thanks to a kick-ass bard and a great nin who did a good job of pulling we were never in any trouble and I was able to keep my mp at 90%+ pretty much the whole time.
Then the bard had to leave and we swapped in a brd / nin at which point it started going wrong. Obviously I now have no backup healer which isn't a big deal but it's always nice to have. Problem was that this bard insisted on pullling, now I have no problem with that either, I've been in parties before where this has worked well, but he didn't use ballad on me. Moreover, he'd often come back with 3 mobs at once with his hp in the red, meaning Cure V's to save his ass as he got back to camp in addition to extra cures on the melees. My mp lasted about 6 fights before it was completely exhausted. The leader said something to him about using ballad, he came over, examined me
and I knew what was coming next: 'Oh, no Noble's tunic...' so now it's not his fault for doing a crappy job but mine for having less than uber gear. After that he made a half-hearted attempt to ballad me occasionally but eventually I gave up and left as without mp I'm not really able to contribute anything to the party.
Now I'm not going to blame myself for this situation as the brd wasn't doing the job the party required, he was doing what he found most fun, but my question is: is it a necessity to have uber gear for these things? I don't want people to think I'm leeching off them. I'm working towards getting better gear but these things take time. Should I lay off the xp parties until I can afford better stuff?
Then the bard had to leave and we swapped in a brd / nin at which point it started going wrong. Obviously I now have no backup healer which isn't a big deal but it's always nice to have. Problem was that this bard insisted on pullling, now I have no problem with that either, I've been in parties before where this has worked well, but he didn't use ballad on me. Moreover, he'd often come back with 3 mobs at once with his hp in the red, meaning Cure V's to save his ass as he got back to camp in addition to extra cures on the melees. My mp lasted about 6 fights before it was completely exhausted. The leader said something to him about using ballad, he came over, examined me
and I knew what was coming next: 'Oh, no Noble's tunic...' so now it's not his fault for doing a crappy job but mine for having less than uber gear. After that he made a half-hearted attempt to ballad me occasionally but eventually I gave up and left as without mp I'm not really able to contribute anything to the party.
Now I'm not going to blame myself for this situation as the brd wasn't doing the job the party required, he was doing what he found most fun, but my question is: is it a necessity to have uber gear for these things? I don't want people to think I'm leeching off them. I'm working towards getting better gear but these things take time. Should I lay off the xp parties until I can afford better stuff?
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