Yeah, its me again. Kind of frustrated, and venting my frustrations here. Its a long post, and I normally don't like making topics like this. Making topcs like this undermine the class for readers who might want to try Monk out. I certainly don't want to hurt our Monkly reputation the way the DRG-forum as killed the reputation of DRGs. Thank you to anyone willing to read further. 
Basically, its like this:
I equipped myself as well as I could and put every ounce of pride and power behind my Monk. He's turned out to be quite a force, and I've even been told by many of my peers that I am amongst the fastest levelers they have seen.
I took my Monk to 61 almost entirely through my own efforts, as I put together virtually every party up to that point.
At 60, I began to hope that maybe I'd start getting invites, and lo and behold, a point came where I was offerred a static party.
At first, I didn't jump at the offer simply because I made it to 61 quickly on my own, I figured I could do my own thing and make it to 75. Then, I just decided to go with it.
The static is set up as follows:
Ranger
Monk
Bard
Red Mage
Black Mage
Warrior (/NIN)
Virtually everyone in the static is a good player. We all have respectable gear for our characters. The Ranger even happens to be in one of the dominant HNM LSes on our server. As you can tell by our setup, the party is very very strong. Our first time together, at Valley of Sorrows, we were getting not just Chain 5, but Chain 6 consistently. This is not just because of the Ranger mind you, but through all of us. I know for a fact that I pull my own weight because I can pull aggro off the Warrior/Ninja (and therefore the RNG) at times. I'm not saying I outdamage the RNG (not at all, considering Barrage and Sidewinder). I'm saying I pull my own weight. This first grouping was on Friday.
Well, now we shift to Saturday. Our BRD makes a camp choice blunder and things go bad. We end up wasting a lot of time between a poor camp, and a few deaths. People are agitated. Our BLM and BRD happen to also be somewhat assholish, as they lash out when frustrated. It turns out as the most expendable member of the party (after all, I'm just a melee), I end up becoming a scapegoat of sorts. This despite what I consider myself to be a non-vocal non-whiny member of this fledgling static party. Go figure, bratty Mages. Who'd have thunk it?
So now its Sunday. I'm told by the member I'm "closest" too (the WAR/NIN, who began this static party with intention of me being in it) that there's "some shit going down." Apparently, the BRD (and to an extent the BLM, but mostly the BRD) want me out of the static. The BRD even issues an ultimatum to the WAR/NIN saying if they don't replace me with a DRK, he will leave and will take the RNG with her. Now a brief note: I have no idea where the BRD gets off speaking for the RNG, but he did it anyway. As of this point, I don't know how the RNG feels. As far as know, the RNG doesn't even know the BRD until our first grouping. Hell, most of the static doesn't even like the BRD (even the static leader thinks the BRD has "issues.") but because he's an oh-so-important BRD, you can assume we endure it. I do know the RNG is disappointed with our skillchain (Howling Fists > Sidewinder). I bring this up because the main reason the BRD wants me out is because "MNKs and RNGs aren't compatible." I just don't get it. RNG and MNK can make powerful LVL 3 skillchains. Not only that, but our party was consistantly getting Chain 5s on any target we decided to fight. If we are already raking in the XP at such blistering speed, with both myself, the BLM, and the RNG outputting such good damage, why does it matter if our skillchain currently isn't ideal? In 4 levels, the LVL 3 skillchain goodness begins. I just don't get it. I sacrificed my time for this set (I play more than they do, so I could've been level 63 by now if I applied my time over the weekend) and now am being strongarmed into leaving. The WAR/NIN is in a tough spot because he can lose me, or lose the "valuable" members of the static (BRD and RNG). The reason the RNG is valuable is because as mentioned, he's a bigtime player on Ragnarok (HNM LS), so they obviously don't want to tick him off, as its an oppurtunity for them.
This is why I say I'm being scapegoated. The static had a bad day on Saturday, mostly because of the foolish camp chosen by the BRD, and I'm the target of their frustration because I'm expendable. The excuse is lousy: Poor skillchain. I already outlined that our killrate is so fast, what does it matter? In 4 levels, RNG and MNK become a great team, so I just don't get it.
I logged off frustrated last night when all this began to unwind on me. I'm pretty certain I'll log in today and find out that I've been ejected from the static. All in all, this has been a huge disappointment to me.
I wish I could change things, but I can't. Can I be angry about it? I guess. But what will it accomplish? I can legitimately feel betrayed (mostly due to the WAR/NIN who I actually was fond of), but he's busy sorting this mess out, I can understand him just wanting to save his own ass in the static. I guess in the end, people are truly selfish and do what benefits them. I guess I'll just grin and bear it, and continue doing what I've been doing on my own.
Thanks for listening.

Basically, its like this:
I equipped myself as well as I could and put every ounce of pride and power behind my Monk. He's turned out to be quite a force, and I've even been told by many of my peers that I am amongst the fastest levelers they have seen.
I took my Monk to 61 almost entirely through my own efforts, as I put together virtually every party up to that point.
At 60, I began to hope that maybe I'd start getting invites, and lo and behold, a point came where I was offerred a static party.
At first, I didn't jump at the offer simply because I made it to 61 quickly on my own, I figured I could do my own thing and make it to 75. Then, I just decided to go with it.
The static is set up as follows:
Ranger
Monk
Bard
Red Mage
Black Mage
Warrior (/NIN)
Virtually everyone in the static is a good player. We all have respectable gear for our characters. The Ranger even happens to be in one of the dominant HNM LSes on our server. As you can tell by our setup, the party is very very strong. Our first time together, at Valley of Sorrows, we were getting not just Chain 5, but Chain 6 consistently. This is not just because of the Ranger mind you, but through all of us. I know for a fact that I pull my own weight because I can pull aggro off the Warrior/Ninja (and therefore the RNG) at times. I'm not saying I outdamage the RNG (not at all, considering Barrage and Sidewinder). I'm saying I pull my own weight. This first grouping was on Friday.
Well, now we shift to Saturday. Our BRD makes a camp choice blunder and things go bad. We end up wasting a lot of time between a poor camp, and a few deaths. People are agitated. Our BLM and BRD happen to also be somewhat assholish, as they lash out when frustrated. It turns out as the most expendable member of the party (after all, I'm just a melee), I end up becoming a scapegoat of sorts. This despite what I consider myself to be a non-vocal non-whiny member of this fledgling static party. Go figure, bratty Mages. Who'd have thunk it?

So now its Sunday. I'm told by the member I'm "closest" too (the WAR/NIN, who began this static party with intention of me being in it) that there's "some shit going down." Apparently, the BRD (and to an extent the BLM, but mostly the BRD) want me out of the static. The BRD even issues an ultimatum to the WAR/NIN saying if they don't replace me with a DRK, he will leave and will take the RNG with her. Now a brief note: I have no idea where the BRD gets off speaking for the RNG, but he did it anyway. As of this point, I don't know how the RNG feels. As far as know, the RNG doesn't even know the BRD until our first grouping. Hell, most of the static doesn't even like the BRD (even the static leader thinks the BRD has "issues.") but because he's an oh-so-important BRD, you can assume we endure it. I do know the RNG is disappointed with our skillchain (Howling Fists > Sidewinder). I bring this up because the main reason the BRD wants me out is because "MNKs and RNGs aren't compatible." I just don't get it. RNG and MNK can make powerful LVL 3 skillchains. Not only that, but our party was consistantly getting Chain 5s on any target we decided to fight. If we are already raking in the XP at such blistering speed, with both myself, the BLM, and the RNG outputting such good damage, why does it matter if our skillchain currently isn't ideal? In 4 levels, the LVL 3 skillchain goodness begins. I just don't get it. I sacrificed my time for this set (I play more than they do, so I could've been level 63 by now if I applied my time over the weekend) and now am being strongarmed into leaving. The WAR/NIN is in a tough spot because he can lose me, or lose the "valuable" members of the static (BRD and RNG). The reason the RNG is valuable is because as mentioned, he's a bigtime player on Ragnarok (HNM LS), so they obviously don't want to tick him off, as its an oppurtunity for them.

This is why I say I'm being scapegoated. The static had a bad day on Saturday, mostly because of the foolish camp chosen by the BRD, and I'm the target of their frustration because I'm expendable. The excuse is lousy: Poor skillchain. I already outlined that our killrate is so fast, what does it matter? In 4 levels, RNG and MNK become a great team, so I just don't get it.
I logged off frustrated last night when all this began to unwind on me. I'm pretty certain I'll log in today and find out that I've been ejected from the static. All in all, this has been a huge disappointment to me.
I wish I could change things, but I can't. Can I be angry about it? I guess. But what will it accomplish? I can legitimately feel betrayed (mostly due to the WAR/NIN who I actually was fond of), but he's busy sorting this mess out, I can understand him just wanting to save his own ass in the static. I guess in the end, people are truly selfish and do what benefits them. I guess I'll just grin and bear it, and continue doing what I've been doing on my own.
Thanks for listening.
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