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  • My own husband blacklisted me -.-

    I am not making this up.

    Okay, first of all, you need to know that for the time being, my husband and I, though -somewhat- happily married, are not living in the same part of the world right now. Long story, not going into it, but we don't see each othe regularly at this point.

    Now that you know that, here's the story:

    I joined a party to go hunting an Eldieme Coffer Key. I needed one for my RDM, and this WAR and I set up a party to go and find it. My husband (Tauro) decided to tag along so he could skill up on his scythe and some of his magic skills. We're doing good, just a party of six of us but no stupidity = easy pulls, kills, drops, etc.

    Well, we are fighting a Haunt. We had this skillchain going on, and well, I guess Tauro missed the fact that it was coming, and used his WS in the middle of it, which screwed it up. If the skillchain had gone off ... well ... we all wouldn't have gotten Cursed. ; ; One of the high levels said, "Thanks, Tauro," to which my husband got really pissy, acting like he didn't do anything wrong (and maybe he thinks he didn't???) and started arguing about how "these mobs were easy to the high levels, a little less HP/MP wouldn't hurt. Maybe so, for the high levels, but for my level 52 butt, that stuff is no joke.

    So I told him hey, don't worry about it, just calm down and we'll keep pulling. Well, my husband can come across as rather volatile through the typed word, so everyone took offense to what he was saying. (It really did sound like he was being a jerk, even to me, and I know him.) So I sent him a /tell that he should just calm down and quit arguing so we could get on with it.

    At that point, he got really angry with me, and well, I took a screenshot and saved it in Paint so I could show all you guys. My /tells are in green, linkshell is that purpleish color, and party is the default blue color, just for the sake of helping you understand what you're looking at:

    As you can see, he got ticked at me, and decided to leave the party.

    The part he is saying about the teles is the Teleport-Yhoat quest, true he helped me kill Ivory Lizzes so I could get the drop faster, but I seriously didn't need his help to get it and we both know it.

    On the bottom you see me saying OMG ... after that I said "My own husband just blisted me." There were some lol's ... but I was dead serious.

    I don't know what his problem is today, but I honestly had to share this. I don't think anyone else has ever been blisted by their husband before.

    Although I am fairly confident he will get over it, there's no way in hell I will ever ask for his help, or even party with him in-game ever again.
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  • #2
    Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

    That has to be a first.
    That's a lot of fuss to make over an interrupted skillchain.
    lagolakshmi on Guildwork :: Lago Aletheia on Lodestone

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    • #3
      Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

      Sorry to hear it Aksannyi. Guess it goes to show you what getting pissed in a video game can do to people. Hope it gets better. When I get pissed off like that it usually passes pretty quick.
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      • #4
        Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

        Wow, sorry to hear @@ I hope that you and your husband's relationship stablizes more, if anything, for the sake of your kids! :3


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        • #5
          Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

          he called you stupid ass. Not something to be expected from your own family seriously. You two really have to talk about this IRL...

          Anyway, about the teleport. I don't think it's much about you being able to solo it. But more about he really did help you, you know. He expected appreciation which is just normal.
          There are painters who transform the sun into a yellow spot,
          but there are others who with the help of their art and their intelligence
          transform a yellow spot into the sun.

          - Pablo Picasso

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          • #6
            Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

            All that over a skillchain? geez...
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            • #7
              Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

              Expecting appreciation is one thing. He gave help and then he held it against her, threatening not to help in the future because of the stupid arguement.
              lagolakshmi on Guildwork :: Lago Aletheia on Lodestone

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              • #8
                Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                Divorce. Trust me, it's much better for a kid to be raised with one parent than with one of them being abusive like this.

                Plus, your kid deserves to speak proper english.

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                • #9
                  Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                  Feba, seriously your thread about 3rd party and now this reply make me think more then your post DONT HELP AT ALL! It only make things worse then help. How old are you btw?

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                  • #10
                    Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                    Originally posted by Feba
                    Divorce. Trust me, it's much better for a kid to be raised with one parent than with one of them being abusive like this.

                    Plus, your kid deserves to speak proper english.
                    Being the child of two parents who went through a nasty 5-year divorce, filled with a depressed mother (who when depressed becomes excessively violent, and is usually a very angry person in general, but I will not go into details, as this is not my thread), and a father who is convinced that anything I take an interest in is bad/should not be supported (even drawing freaking fantasy characters!), I still would have to say I would prefer it if my parents where still together... Would have been much better for me.

                    Infact, one reason why I am forced to go to community college is because of that divorce... After it started, I could not keep myself straight. If it weren't for videogames, and specifically FFXI, I would be some wannabe-artist, back-alley stoner kid most likely, because seeing the emotional difficulty of my parents, and the shear amount of tension that did not exist when they where very unhappily married... it just drained me, my sanity and my emotions... Before atleast my parents could bare the brunt of eachother's anger, and the tension between the two was not necessarily to distrative, unlike the post-seperation tension.

                    If it weren't for the divorce, my life would be so much different, in many ways, so much better.

                    This is the honest truth from me, and I do not want to see any other person go through what I had to go through, what I had to loose. I believe that it would be better for the kids if their parents stayed together, even if it's hard on the two married.


                    IS DOUKUTSU MONOGATARI NOT AWESOME?

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                    • #11
                      Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                      There's a broad line between being an ass in an online game and being an abusive parent. If you were to stand on one side of the line and throw a stone as far as you could across it, I'm not sure it would reach the other side.
                      lagolakshmi on Guildwork :: Lago Aletheia on Lodestone

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                      • #12
                        Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                        maybe a bad day for him? sorry to hear ;_; hope you two get back on loving terms again ^^!

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                        • #13
                          Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                          Typically, the way people act online is how they want to act.

                          I'm not saying nessicerily physically abusive, but typically people act the way they want to most around things they feel they are better than, or have control over. Such as pets, children, wives..


                          Obviously, he's not a good figure, and having lived with an [emotionally] abusive father myself, and being driven near suicidal, i'd have to reccomend against it.

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                          • #14
                            Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                            Do you even listen to yourself Feba? I get in bad moods, and when I do, I get snippy and argueing, particlularly on the internet, as it is my escape. A Bad day Equals not Divorce. Even in real life, If you run off to get divorced the first time you and your signifigant other argue, You won't last a week.

                            Aksannyi, I am sorry to hear what happened, but I am sure you guys will be able to work things out. Like I mentioned, he probably just had a bad day and took it off on you.

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                            • #15
                              Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.-

                              oh wow... I'm really sorry to hear that. It sounds like he was already having a bad day and that scenario just pushed him over. Even still... wow.

                              I hope things get well for you. Good luck.

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