what has pissed you off?

[Jei]

Re: what has pissed you off?

you really can't expect help grandmom. it's not 100% but for the most part it will be. I've been let dead from both JP/NA when I claim NM countless times. And I counted probably only 1 or 2 times that ppl actually helped me.

I sadly admit, once I waited for VK emperor for 7 hours. A PT of level 15-16 claimed it and was dieing. I let them all die for my hairpin and my 7 hours.... Felt bad, yes I did. But from the stress and time spent I had to say I had kinda nerve break down, I'm sure all campers do.

[Cbot]

Re: what has pissed you off?

What pisses me off is that everytime I try to lvl up warrior.I end up quitting because I can't find any parties and when I lvl a mage or another job that I don't like.I find parties easily.My main beef is that every time I want to lvl a melee job,I end up quitting because they don't find parties easily as a whm,blm,rdm.But I'm not a mage type.Whm is SOOOOO boring.

[Ticks]

Re: what has pissed you off?

What pisses me off is when I get in a good party, all set up in a great area, everyone plans on staying for several hours and I go to the refrigerator and find I forgot to get beer! Arghhh!

[Feenicks]

Re: what has pissed you off?

Things that really piss me off? People who invite me to ongoing parties which are located in Sky or some other place with a long commute time and then tell me 20 minutes later they are logging off. No notice period, no apologies for making me hike all the way out there, NOTHING. Yes this happens to a lot of people but it just simply happens too much in Vana'Diel. A party is a COMMITMENT. Why don't people understand this? I turn down any invite from a party who wants to employ me as a replacement. I'd rather continue to sit on my arse in Ru'Lude Gardens with my flag up, it's better for my patience.

[Jei]

Re: what has pissed you off?

I hate that too. I've been in a PT that does it and here's where it comes from.
- member thinks s/he's leaving in 15 minutes. ask replacement to come.
- replacement on his way, more ppl decide to leave
- replacement finally arrive, but instead of 1 ppl leaving, the PT ends up with 5 ppl leaving.
- disband... replacement waste his time.

[Cbot]

Re: what has pissed you off?

I hate that too. I've been in a PT that does it and here's where it comes from.
- member thinks s/he's leaving in 15 minutes. ask replacement to come.
- replacement on his way, more ppl decide to leave
- replacement finally arrive, but instead of 1 ppl leaving, the PT ends up with 5 ppl leaving.
- disband... replacement waste his time.

Damn!Those things happens to me also.Especially in valkrum dunes.

[TheGrandMom]

Re: what has pissed you off?

you really can't expect help grandmom. it's not 100% but for the most part it will be. I've been let dead from both JP/NA when I claim NM countless times. And I counted probably only 1 or 2 times that ppl actually helped me.

Excuse me Jei, did you even comprehend what I said ticked me off? He stopped, started to cast, after I /t'd and thanked him, he sat, and then /t'd me and said some asinine comment. Now compare that to what you just said. How do you see the correlation between the two? It's not like he just ran past and waved.

[Jei]

Re: what has pissed you off?

I just said getting help when fighting NM is not to be expected. : / I don't understand your reply here.

[TheGrandMom]

Re: what has pissed you off?

... seriously? Is english your first language or no?

1) You specifically addressed me so the paragraph was intended as a reply to my comment about something that happened to me.

2) You said "you really can't expect help grandmom", which implies that you felt the person was not wrong to start casting on me, then stop, and then msg me basically saying that he wouldn't raise me because of my nationality.

3) I said nothing about being dead from a NM. The previous PARAGRAPH was about a nm hunt but the paragraph that your referring to is not. I just stated I was dead and that was all. Yet you implied it was about a NM fight "I've been let dead from both JP/NA when I claim NM countless times. And I counted probably only 1 or 2 times that ppl actually helped me."

Ok do you understand my reply now? I made a valid point about someone being rude, which is something I happen to dislike, i.e. the topic of the thread. You implied I shouldn't be upset about something like that by saying you don't always get raised at NM fights. The two have absolutely nothing to do with one another.

[lionx]

Re: what has pissed you off?

Um Grandmom, what Jei said was in reference to you helping that SAM on VE, not about your Raise. >>; He did not address the japanese WHM at all.

What pisses me off? Well racism x_x I know that sometimes people do get pissed at them, but to label all gilsellers as chinese then poke fun at them when i exp just sometimes piss me off although i try to ignore it. So yeah that does get on my nerves at times, i rather label gilsellers as sellers and chinese as chinese more than all gilsellers = chinese which makes no sense. That and the JP not raising grandmom or the NA only / JP onry things...just..doesnt feel very good you know?

[Taskmage]

Re: what has pissed you off?

Whoa, settle down. You've already established yourself that you're talking about two different things. Jei's intent is obvious from his previous post. I think we can agree that the person who left you dead was being a dick and also that it's not uncommon for people to be dicks, especially when an NM claim is involved. No need for invective or boldfaced, bullet-pointed pedantism here.

[TheGrandMom]

Re: what has pissed you off?

No need for invective or boldfaced, bullet-pointed pedantism here.

No need for you to assume something that isn't even there. Note the first line of my reply. I asked directly if english was his first language or not. I assumed it might not be and broke it down for him so he could understand what my point was. So when was being helpful to someone considered pedantism?

[Taskmage]

Re: what has pissed you off?

I assumed that was meant as an insult. I apologize. However, your post does come across that way.

[Arris]

Re: what has pissed you off?

I've been left dead by NA aswell as my own ppls (I am Japanese) so I don't see it as I was left dead by this NA person...or that JP person. I was left dead by a a-hole. Race nor the place where they live ever comes into the equation for me. People will be a-holes and racist regardless where they are from. I lived in 5 different places in the world believe me I know.

[DakAttack]

Re: what has pissed you off?

I hate self proclaimed gil seller hunters. They''ll train monsters on two parties just to get to one gil seller. They shout and post all over message boards about their duty to the public and pretend like they're getting paid. In the end they're just more drama than anybody needs.